Bullies who and what are they ? This is a problem that is out of control and over running our school system. Its nreal and sad when we as parents can’t send our kids to school to learn how to read and write without some other kids making things bad for them to enjoy their day in school. Around every school in America there is one or several kids who get their rocks off beating , hitting or scarring some kid to hurt themselves and afraid to attend school because of fear of being bullied.There are many ways a kid can be bullied and they’re verbal,physical, and cyberbullying. I remember a few years back kids were killing kids at school bringing guns and other weapons to school. Is this a warning of pending doom for our kids will the shooting start back up from fear of bullies ?. Question is where is this behavior coming from being bullied themselves or a violent home ? Here is a web site to get information on how to talk with your kids about bullies.http://family.samhsa.gov/teach/elementary_bullies.aspx
What are your thoughts and feeling ? Leave it on my blog and let others know your feelings.

The reason people around the world travel to their local church during the week is to listen to the word of God and draw others to have their soul saved and receive a blessing from God .But what happens when the person you’re listening to has a deep hidden demon in his soul and not living according to what he preaches. Where can a black young man turn when the church is failing and there is no father or guidance at home ?
This is speaking about Bishop Eddie Long a prominent pastor outside of Atlanta Ga. Who has been accused of having sex with two young members of his flock. Having sex with the men is not the main problem for Bishop Long he has spent many years gay bashing the gay community. He is the strongest anti-gay advocate around and now he is being accused of doing something he has strong beliefs against.My question is was or is there any gay members in his church that sat there and listened to him degrade them because of their sexuality. Is this what you call” trouble in the pulpit”? How is it that a preacher can stand before his flock and bash a community of men and women because they’re gay and he himself has fallen into the lifestyle and may have been enjoying it? The young men that came forward are they doing this for money, pride, or are they fighting their demons that can lead them down the wrong path one day ?
Long has call the accusation false and asked his 25,000-member church to pray for him and his family. Pray for him yes, but a prayer that will heal his soul not to help cover a lie. Nothing is hidden from God so becareful what you ask in prayer. I have to say I do feel bad for him and his family but I’m not the one to cast the first stone. There will be more info that will be released about this in the coming days or weeks but we must remember we all have sin and fallen short of the glory of God.
This is a quote from THE ROOT.COM and I find this statement so true.”if we learn nothing else from the biggest and messiest black mega church scandal ever, it is that truth cannot be silenced no matter how many refuse to speak it or conspire to hush it up. It will find a way to manifest itself. It does not need to be spoken to reveal itself.
Leave me a comment on your feeling about this story. “Ministering Treachery”, The Truth Concerning Bishop Eddie Long’s Spiritual Wilderness

Illegal aliens , terrorism , drug trade , al-Qaeda these are some of the problems the United States is dealing with since 9-11. If you have been following the news there are some states cracking down on immigration because it has become a problem as for crime , tax payers support for help with babies born here in this country to illegal aliens without papers and job loss to the American people and the list goes on.
Gov Jan Brewer of Arizona signed the nations toughest bill on immigration. It’s aim to identify prosecute and depot illegal aliens. So far a hand full of illegal aliens have packed up and moved out of state to avoid the risk of being arrested and deported. The news media interview one family who were relocating and asked them how they felt about the new law and they were crying saying how they were losing their home and family business. Now I’m not the smartest rock on the ground but how was he able to have a nice running business and making good money and not paying taxes because he didn’t have papers. All I can say is welcome to America.
Give me your comment on your feelings about this immigration issue the American people are facing. “Immigration Laws Scare Away Illegal Aliens” and related posts

Florida is putting together a bill that is almost the same if not harder on immigration than that in Arizona. And there are other states doing the same. Is this what it takes to win back our country ?

Well the new year 2010 is here now with us , so before it find it’s way on YouTube what did you do last night that was fun and crazy ?

For the new year 2010 what is one thing about yourself you’re going to change that will make you a better person to others and yourself ?

In many cultures a duo of a mother and her daughter shares a very beautiful relationship like no other relationship in this world.But this mother and daughter bond is stronger than anything I have ever seen. Allow me to explain;
It’s Christmas time and most kids want to go out and buy gifts for their mom and dad from the store that to me everyone in town is going to have one but a different color. So the daughter age 17 wanted to do something special for her mother, unlike anything she has done or given her in the past. But this gift had to be something she will always remember and what make this gift so special it was to be made by her hands , time, sweat and ideals.
She drove to a local Home improvement store found the items she needed and not only carried these item to her car but refused help from the store workers that offered to carried the heavy items for her. It all had to be done by her hands only with no help from others. From start to finish she put her all into this gift and if you look at the pictures below you will see what her gift was to her mother. As you look at it you would think that it’s a flower bed but that’s to easy and no that’s not it. “it’s a fire pit”. Why a fire pit think about it a lot of thought , love , and heart went into the building of this fire pit placing the bricks clearing the ground. And she know that one day she will be leaving home starting her own life in the world and she will be sadly missed by her mother , anytime on a nice cool star fill night her mother can pull up a lawn chair and relax by a nice warm fire knowing it was built with love something for many years to come she can stand at the back door of the house looking across the yard at a gift that love build and if you look closely in the center of the ‘ fire pit’ you will see a smiley face to remind her mom of the love that went into building this gift for her. My friend’s gold can not be measured to that. What she did for her mother you can’t put a price tag on it. What have you done that was special for your mother on Christmas and did it top the price of gold ?

There have been some added up dated photo’s some of you have requested of the fire pit in use. This turned out to be a big winner because here in Florida for the past few weeks the temp at night has been in the low 30’s and I bet the heat from the fire pit felt so good in that cold weather.

Life turning point

Is there a turn around point ? What I mean is when we get to a point in our life where we feel it’s time to straighten things out for ourselves and get a grip on life, question is where and when do we start.Maybe you’re one of millions of people who spend their whole life working a dead end job for little money no special schooling or skills and you watch and wonder why people your age or younger are living the life style that you wish you should have.
Is there a right time for anyone to stop look around and make a change in their life. Would it have to be a death in the family, job loss or the feeling of failure ? Most people say they do it all the time but if that’s so what is really changing if they make that turning point all the time.
My life has not been the best but I can’t remember even coming to a point where I said this is it I’m making this day my turning point.
Funny thing is when life circumstances change , the future is suddenly very unclear. Familiar roles are gone and personal identity is lost yet , during the transition making those Important life decisions must be made often under stress and it turns out to be a bad decision we made. Have you made a turning point in your life and how did you go about it ?

This is the Sunshine Skyway a bridge build linking Pinellas And Manatee Counties . As beautiful as this bridge look, it has a dark side it’s a symbol of death to those who come here monthly to end their lives. At the top of the bridge only a concrete wall roughly 3 1/2 feet high borders the apex of the main span of the 4.1 mile suspension bridge.The plunge to the water last about 3.5 seconds.Most people are killed when they hit the water at 75 MPH. The Body is mangled while the organs rip loose, clothes are often ripped off, skulls are smashed, bones are crushed and teeth shattered.They drive their car up to the highest peak of the 197 feet bridge park their car ,Get out and hop up on the rail and let their feet dangle over the edge for a few moment and push off to their death.
For that short moment on the rail we will never know what’s going through their mind. Are they
Making peace with God or waiting to be talked down a question that will always go unanswered. Since the new rebuild bridge open in 1987 , 130 people has committed suicide by jumping into the water from the center span into the waters of Tampa Bay . The Sunshine Skyway is among the most notorious American bridges for suicides. The most infamous is the San Francisco’s Golden Gate Bridge with the most suicides approximately 30 suicides per year.
The Sunshine Skyway a bridge of beauty but a one way stop for those wanting to end their life.
What are your comments about suicide ?

Have you had a point in your life whereas you prayed and God answered your prayers ? Tell us your story

I’m sitting here with this heavy question on my mind and I’m wondering was this all in Gods plans from the beginning of time for there to be good and evil , If he knew ahead of time why allow something so bad on something he created ?
Evil has a strong grip on man kind today more than ever. If the God we know and love grant us blessings by his grace why did he allow evil to have it’s share of man knowing he could have put a stop to it before it got started . What are your comments and feelings.

Why are so many people failing in life right now ? Is it job lost , family stress ,unable to cope or deep depression . There were times when jobs out number people everyone buying and selling a home and now there’s nothing. We were warmed about days to come like this written in the bible and foretold before we were ever born and we as human written it off as someone whoever written the bible didn’t know what he was saying well guess what look at things now all we hear about is this one world order, job loss, families turning on it’s own members and that as well was stated in the bible. Believe what you want but the bible has a lot of truth to it as for me I try and pick it up and read it but I’m the first to admit I do a poor job of reading it on a daily basics.
Can it also be the reason why a lot of people can’t find work is because they’re looking for a job they want to do and not what God want them to do. Everyone can’t have the best job in the world and be rich but if you think about it we do have the best job in the world . Who cares you’re working in a nursing home or washing dishes , digging a ditch along side the highway. God is making it a way for you to eat and pay your bills and have a roof over your head. If God put you in a job where you’re doing these things and you’re happy that’s all the matters he know what is best for you and more doors will open for you. My job to me is the best in the world because God called me to do it and I don’t complaint about it. A lot of people are holding out on these high paying jobs and that might not be what God has planned for them and therefore they can’t find work where in fact there is work around the corner. I think we as human need to focus more on God and allow him to move us though this thing call life and I think we’re be better off. All it takes is letting go and let God do his thing. So many families are breaking and falling apart because they don’t have a strong foundation with something they believe in. Sit back and ask God what is it you want me to do and doors will open for you.